Few years back, my husband and I were a typically married couple with two kids. Since we both works for a better life, our sex life was gone somewhere too far. I would accept that most of the couples have similar issues after spending few years together. But, deep in my heart, I knew that it is not something we wanted for us.

After having a couple of discussions, I get agreed with few of my husband’s requests and we explored a whole new world as we started BDSM in our bedroom. I started discovering myself and true joy for me. In the process, we become an even stronger couple.

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That’s why, I decided to write my experiences and share them with others, so they can also have some fun in their sex life. February 14 is the day to please and delight your valentine. Flowers, chocolates, romance, some hot kisses are standard, but I would give you some interesting kinky tips to make your valentine unforgettable. Apart from the BDSM tips for valentine’s day, you can integrate the following tips in your regular sex routine to have more fun and enjoyment.

Flowers

Are flowers a must for you and your partner? Let’s buy a single rose with removed thorns. While presenting it to your bedmate, let her know that you are going to use it later tonight. Use this romantic tool like a feather to tease the body of your bedmate. Once you are done, sprinkle the petals all over your partner and move to the next surprise.

Lace

Lace can be a great tool for your special night if you know exactly how to use it. After getting permission for your lover, tie a lace over his or her eyes. Now, you partner will be more focused on sound, taste, and touch. While teasing her body with your hands, whisper to him or her. Also, you can surprise your lover through various taste sensations like using something savory, chocolate or maybe strawberries. Let’s go even further and see some erotic BDSM tips for valentine’s day.

Candles

Massage your partner a bit before your start the actual play. Once you have done it, drop slowly the hot wax over your lover’s body. To add some fun, you can bring some ice cubes as well.

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Note: Use uncolored candles because they burn at low temperature. Plus, do a test before you start an actual play.

Light Bondage

Handcuffs are little rough on the wrists and not a good option to start with, but a silk scarf is a sexy and comfortable option even if you are new to this life. Always remember that bondage requires complete trust on your partner. If you both are interested in bondage then you can try this, otherwise wait for the right time.

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Play Dice

Do you like to have a little experience of D/s? Let’s have a dice game with your bedmate. Get a white and red die before you have a seat. One person will roll the dice and other will perform what the dice indicates. There are some actions below that you can set at each number, but you can replace any action as per your choice. Consider this as some prfect BDSM tips for valentine’s day.

White Dice

1. Lips
2. Chest
3. Back
4. Between the legs
5. Thighs
6. Sexual part (as per Dom choice)

Red Dice

1. Kiss
2. Bite or nibble
3. Suck or lick
4. Caress
5. Nipples
6. Arouse (as per submissive choice)

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