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Let me be clear, I am not here to play games. That being said, I am a Dom, understand I will not bring this up again for the simple fact it would be redundant to continue to announce it. If you still question it, then by all means read what I say and follow my actions. That alone should be more than sufficient to show you the truth. That being said, I can not stand being called Sir, Daddy, or Master by anyone that I am not in a relationship with, truth be told even then I would prefer she calls me by a name she loves. I also do not expect nor do I like when someone just gives me their submission as easily as you would give your name. You should submit to someone because you love them and like anything else in life it is a gift you only want to share with your one.

It is sad I am having to redo my profile but it seems there are quite a few of you that just want to play games on here. I am not Christian Grey and this is not a badly written novel, this is real life. It is sad but it does seem there is a large amount on here that falls into the 50 shades group instead of those looking for a serious relationship.

My goal is to find someone for a long term relationship as well as tease my sapiosexual side. Someone to share a life of growth in our lifestyle as well as in other interests. Someone in the age range of 30-50, who is open-minded, and one who understands I just want her, no other in our sharing.

So who am I? I’m 45, from Alabama. I won't go into too much when it comes to my profession for the simple fact of where I work. I am open-minded, I enjoy learning new things, experiencing new cultures, and meeting people from all different walks of life. I love animals, am an audiophile, a bit of a gamer, I am a movie buff and enjoy some anime, as well as I am an avid reader.

A lot of the reasons for me being in this lifestyle comes from growing up in a family with traditional gender roles. It also comes from being detail-oriented in my life as well as my goals, I have for myself. While these things are deeply rooted in who I am as a person and yes, I show it in how I care for friends and family, understand I do not do this on a whim.

What I am looking for in a submissive?
• She is between the ages of 30 and 50, looking for someone with shared life experiences and interests.
• She must be single, no poly. I can not believe this had to be said but seems there are a lot of people that do not understand that.
• Willing to get to know one another first. I am not just going to jump into a relationship with just anyone. I also want someone who is open to voice chat. While I can give you several reasons why the written word is romantic, I feel you grow a better connection talking. I will admit that it also helps to be an auralist.
• I would hope to find someone open-minded. I do not expect us to want to do everything together, but it would be nice to want to grow as a couple, whether it be taking cooking or dancing lessons, exercising together, or even taking snorkeling and scuba diving lessons.

My limits: (you would think some of these are common sense)
• Scat
• Anything illegal
• Water sports
• Needles
• Animals
• Blood
• Children
• I can not stand anyone that can’t keep their word if you tell me or promise me anything then follow through

What are my sexual kinks?
• I am a sapiosexual as well as an auralist. Something as simple as deep conversations and philosophical debates debate can be sexy to me. Yes, I would love to find someone who not only understands this but also is willing to give me her opinion as well as a debate.
• TPE, CNC, Cum, Orgasm Control, Restraints, Ropes, Cock Worship, Sensuality, degradation, name-calling, dirty talk, and more.