Bree was exhausted. Usually, she would jump out of her car once she pulled into her parking place. But today, she turned off the ignition, leaned her head against the door, closed her eyes, and just remembered how warm her bed was. How the smell of John, made her heart race. How the heat from his body soaked down to the very core of her being.

She sighed as she stretched her legs, god she needed him. No, she had to have him claim her, make her remember who owned her. Bree slung her bag over her shoulder and forced herself out of the car. The October sky was soft, streaked with the first threads of sunlight. A slight breeze ruffled her blond hair as the cool breeze passed. Her long sexy legs carried her across the parking lot into her office building.

Passed the main entrance and down a long corridor, Bree walked into her office, private, lockable, and a place she’d had planned to use to hide from the long morning ahead. Bree sighed as she brushed her hair from her face. Last few weeks John and she had not been themselves. Work and family life had overrun their time together.

Jesus, when was the last time she and John had sex? It had been so long she could not even remember when. God, she needed his strength, the feel of him claiming her, the feel of his hand molding her to his every need. She sighed at the thought and made a mental note to make sure she reminded him tonight she was his to have.

As she walked into her office she noticed a gray envelope on her desk, on it was the name Firefly. Bree’s heart fluttered as she saw this. John must have left this the other day. Quickly, she slit the envelope, pulled out the folded paper, and skimmed the opening lines.

I will take you in your office this afternoon. It’s where I’m taking my girl.

Blood rushed to her face as she collapsed into her chair. She really should wait and read this later, yes that is it. After all, it had been a while since he sent her something like this.

Slowly she slid down in her chair and began to read the letter.

You’ve had a long day, and you don’t think anyone else is around. You kick off your heels and roll down those stockings exposing your long sexy legs. You don’t notice I’ve been waiting for you, watching your every move, until I reach around you and start unbuttoning your shirt. You gasp as my hands caress your full tits until your nice tailored shirt falls on the floor. You need this right now, say it.

John left her a hot letter as a surprise. She slammed the letter down on her desk. Got up from her chair and quickly locked her office door. The normal early birds were walking in, surely she would have time to at least read a little bit more. Then she leaned back in her chair and began to read again.

When I unzip your tight skirt, you feel my hard cock pressed against your ass. I pull your lace panties down, inch by inch, over your smooth thighs. You’re already wet, biting your lip, but you don’t turn around. Not even when I unhook your bra and run my hands all over your incredible tits.

Breathe. She told herself to remember to breathe. The office was suddenly twenty degrees hotter.

Your nipples are so hard for me, your body obeys my every whim. And your pussy is beyond wet for me, as you feel moisture dripping down your creamy thighs. When I slide two fingers into your experienced cunt, sliding in as a moan escapes your lips. You’re already so close to cumming on my hand.

You love me doing this to you, don’t you, Bree? You’re holding onto your desk now because you can’t take all the pleasure. But my whore can take a lot more than this, and you will.

God, he is evil. Her cheeks were hot. Her nipples rubbed against her bra. She let out a lite moan as the ache between her legs was getting stronger.

You’ve been around, and you’ve had your share of men. You may know the feel of a man’s body but only I own you. Finally giving in to the pleasure of knowing your rapture is coming. Your ready when my big cock parts your lips as your pussy latches on, quenching the hunger it has longed missed. A moan escapes your lips, as I force you down over your desk. You begin to move your hips back into me, begging to take you faster. Squirming, knowing what is about to come I caress your head. Shh, just relax, Firefly. I’m taking you for a ride.

The paper crumpled in her hand. Her head felt light…

At ten minutes past six, the office was dead. Most of the doors there were locked, the only real light came from Bree’s office. John had texted her earlier to be ready to go at 5. He knew what he was doing. Making her wait may have been wrong but the end result would be even sweeter. When John had talked to her at lunch Bree was breathless. He knew what was bothering her, she could not get past the letter. After everything they had been through, he knew how deep her feelings were.

John lightly knocked on her office door. After waiting for less then a few seconds, he pushed it open and closed it behind him.

Therewith her head down on her desk was his Firefly. She had been too tired to enjoy anything lately and somehow fell asleep waiting. Bree was sprawled in her swivel chair, breathing heavily through those luscious peach-colored lips. Her long golden blonde hair scattered over her shoulders. Her tailored white blouse and long black skirt clung to her ripe curves. As he walked up closer to her, his eyes roamed following were she had thrown off her heels and traveling up her long lightly muscled legs. In her sleep, her knees had fallen apart just enough for John’s mind wandered up to her creamy thighs and to her wet hot pussy.

As he looked down at her he could feel his dick aching to be unleashed. John could not help but smile as he knew what was to come. Bree could never say no to him, after all, he owned her. Not because he was her dom, no that would never be what made her give herself to him. It was all of him, yes he owned her, heart, mind, body, and soul. Neither would have it any other way.

He gently moved some of her hair from her ear. “Firefly”, he said softly.

Bree stirred, let out a moan, and then relaxed again.

John brought his face down to her ear. “Firefly, it’s time to wake up.”

Eyelids fluttered, then her green eyes opened wide.

Bree peered up at him as she brushed the hair off her flushed face, aware that he was watching every move. She could not help but bite her lower lip, as her eyes wandered over his body and down to the bulge she desired. So obvious was the two ripe bids pressing through her dress. Her green eyes locked with his almost begging for him to take her.

“Fuck, I ache to bury myself inside you, Firefly.” He said as he reached out and gently brushed back a strand of her golden hair. When his hand caressed her face her eyes began to flicker. Her skin was so soft. John could feel his balls tightening as if to warn him that it would not be denied.

Reaching up, her hands cupped the back of his head, feeling the softness of his short hair in her hand. She stretched up towards him, her lips parted. Her other hand found his muscled shoulder. John’s hand slowly found its way around her waist. She started to lean in, about to kiss the man she loved.

“No,’ he whispered as his finger went and pressed against her lips. “That is not going to happen, Firefly.”

She stared in disbelief, what the hell was he doing to her. He had teased her all day, promising this moment. Now he was not even letting her love on him?

“John, please. I have been wanting this.” Her full lips were so close, her perfume was intoxicating.

“No, Firefly.”

“Nothing at all? Not even one kiss?” she raised an eyebrow and pouted to tease him.

“Turn around,” he said in his commanding voice.

She bit her lip, she could hardly contain the excitement. She could feel her nipples aching under her white satin bra, and her wet panties beckoned her to hurry. Even still she tried to tease him by slowly turning around to face her desk but John was not having it. He took hold of her and firmly turned her around.

“I’m taking you in this office,” he said softly. “It’s where I am taking my girl.”

Bree sucked in her breath. The note, that is how it started. She had been glancing at it all day, it had practically burned itself onto her brain.

“You’ve had a long day” John continued, “and you don’t think no one else is around. You kick off your heels and roll down those stockings exposing your long sexy legs. You don’t notice I’ve been waiting for you, watching your every move, until I reach around you and start unbuttoning your shirt.”

As he took off his shirt and throws it in front of her, Bree’s body begins to quiver. “You gasp as my hands caress your full tits until your nice tailored shirt falls on the floor. You need this right now, say it.”

Her nipples were hard, pushing against the fabric. God if only he would slip his hand up my thigh, he would see what he does to me. Instead, John’s hands slowly went down her shoulders, rubbing them lightly. His gently caress on her chest had her skin prickling. She could feel the heat of his body from behind her. When he did start to slowly unbutton her, she couldn’t hold back a gasp.

“Yes, John. I need you,” she moaned. Saying this only made her pussy pulse. Juices gushed into her panties.

Hands pulled down her white blouse over her shoulders and slid quickly to her breasts. John’s soft hands squeezed her tits through her bra, slipping inside her satin cups. Her breasts were so full and round, with her nipples ripe for his touch. Bree let out a whimper.

Squeezing her thighs together, Bree gripped the edge of her desk. No matter what he said about kissing her, hot lips were now teasing her neck. She could tell he was almost ready as she felt his hard throbbing cock, twitching against her ass. She let out another moan as her mind raced thinking of the promise that was coming.

“You need me right now,” he whispered as he licked her neck. “I know you do. Don’t you, Bree?” His hands were full of his teacher’s luscious tits, soft flesh spilling between his fingers. Her nipples were puckered with excitement. He gave the tight buds a firm pinch, and she gasped. “I’m sorry. Did you say something?”

“What do you think?” she said as she was squirming under his touch, her ass rubbing against his cock.

“I think..” he whispered into her ear, right before nipping at her neck, Bree jerked with excitement from it. “I think, that you are my slut. But if you want to tease and make this even longer. I can wait, can you?”

She practically came from this alone. No, she needed him. “No, John, please. Let me be your whore and cum slut. Please fuck me, Master! I need this, God I fucking need to be used.” She could feel his cock twitch at what she said. All she wanted was for him to use her.

“You are going to be my cum slut. You need this.” He rubbed his cock into her as he said it. “I promise you by the end of the night you will remember what it is like to be my monogamous slut and whore. I will break you down until all you can do is worship this.” He gave her breasts another squeeze to bring his point home.

Rubbing her nipples between his thumb and index fingers.

“Yes, Master!” she gasped, thrusting her ass back into his erection. She squeezed the edge of her desk even tighter as a ripple of nerves ran down her body.

He unzipped her long black skirt and watched it slowly fall revealing his perfect girl. She was so dammed hot, ripe, and ready to be plucked. The muscles in her legs were taunt, the curves in her hips made him want to grab hold of them and bury his hard cock deep into that wet hot pussy.

“God you are so hot, Firefly.”

She could feel the bulge from his cock through her thin panties, completely soaked… she felt the hot skin of his chest as he leaned in and nipped at her neck. She began to buck her hips against his crotch.

“Do that again and I won’t continue this.” He said as he traced the lines down the front of her panties, cupping what was his and slowly going over bare skin back to those breasts. Bree shivered under his touch. All she could do now was moan.

His hand slid between her legs, as she gasped. He slid under the satin panties and into the slow-burning fire that he had started. Sweat ran down his chest, his cock beckoned him to hurry as it hunger for its prey. She groaned as she lifted her hips, inviting his finger into her. His middle finger was covered in her before it even went in all the way. His other hand slid from her breast and went to her clit, tease, and playing. Her cunt began to quiver around his finger.

“Hmm, you’re already close to cumming.”

“Master,” she rasped. “Please fuck you whore.”

He was almost startled from what was coming from here. He had never heard you so lost in it. Sure he had enjoyed in subspace, even relished it when he turned her into a wild lustful beast. But to have gotten here so fast, his cock twitched bring him out of his head. She was rolling her hips back and forth, doing everything she could to get more out of his hands as whimpers and gasps of pleasure past those sexy peach lips. He placed one of his legs between her thighs to wedge her in place, he was not going to allow her to waste the pleasure of anticipation. After all, this was not some simple passionate fuck that came on a spur of the moment. He had deliberately teased and taunted his girl for weeks on end, and while even he had thought about giving at times, he never broke. So he would be dam sure his whore was not going to waste what he had planned. His middle finger reached even farther inside her, after all her clit was ripe so her g-spot was going to be picked.

“Oh, fuck,” Bree growled. “Yes.”

Bree’s pussy spasmed, tightening around his finger, as her ass fluttered. She arched her back offering her pussy up for her Master’s hands.

John’s cock began to throb under the assault from her ass. She liked it, no she fucking loved it! She needed his cum, she needed him to mark her with it.

Pleasure began to course through her body, like sparks of electricity. God she had missed his touch, she needed this now. Her hands reached back, squeezing and rubbing his cock through his pants. “Mmm…so good.”

His hands quickly grabbed hers and forcefully put them back on the desk.

“Master, please…” she moaned.

“I said no, we can stop right now, with me tying you up so you can’t finish what I started,” he said in a low voice.

“Oh, god, please…” she moaned with a little fear in her voice.

“Stop, Master is talking. Or you can be a good little whore and keep your hands on that desk.” His breath was hot on her neck. Is it no wonder she loved this man, she would do anything for him. “Well, I asked you a question.”

Her pussy writhe from just his words. Fuck, he was so hot, beyond hot. She could only groan a response as his thumb began to work its way into her ass. She moaned as he slowly began to work his thumb deeper in her ass. His other hand was still assaulting her clit and pussy.

“I’ll be a good whore,” she whimpered as her pussy and ass quivered around his fingers. Warm cream covered his hand and slowly trickled down her thigh.

“That’s my good lil Firefly,” he told her as his assault on her began to get stronger. Bree whimpered, all she could think of was what was coming. Him fucking her, of him squirting ribbons of his hot sweet cum on her. She was not going to be able to hold out much longer, she needed him.

“You love me doing this to you, say it?” he whispered into her ear, his hot breath on her neck. She was putty, ready to be molded by her Master’s hands.

All she could do was make a sound in response. Hell yes, she was. She was now clutching on to that desk moaning and crying out. Her eyes squeezed shut, her mind drifting off to slowly become the sex-craved beast that he created. This was beyond insane, how much longer was he going to make her wait, her only thought was his cock.

“But my whore can take a lot more than this, and you will.” He said as he one hand pushed on the back of her neck, forcing her down.

She felt the cool air on her skin, now both hands had left her. She tensed up, but this time her hands did not dare leave the desk. Then she heard it. The scrape of a zipper coming down, all the muscles in her body released and she began to quiver from desire.

“You’ve been around,” her Master said softly. A warmth rubbed over her exposed pussy. She gasped when the head of his cock traced her clit and lips of her pussy. “And you’ve had your share of men.”

She arched her back as she felt the head of his cock trace down the sides of her lips. She could feel her lips opening as hard flesh gently pushed against her soaked cunt.

“Yes,” she rasped, breathing heavy. She could feel her hard nipples as they sent tingles each time she inhaled.

“You may know the feel of a man’s body but only I own you.”

“Yesss, Master…”

And fuck, feel was all she was getting. His hot thighs pressing against hers. His hand firmly holding her hips. The other holding her pussy open while a thumb continued to sway back and forth against her clit. His hot hard cock driving her insane, pressing against the entrance of her cunt. Her senses were going wild, the smell of his body, the feel, and hearing her own heart pounding over her ragged breathes.

“Finally giving in to the pleasure of knowing your rapture is coming. Your ready when my big cock parts your lips as your pussy latches on, quenching the hunger it has longed missed.” he dug his fingers into her hips, sexy lustful heat opened around his throbbing cock, as he sunk it into her wet cunt. Her pussy surrendering to his thickness. “A moan escapes your lips,” no more like growling, this caged sex beast had finally been released, Her tight ass pushed up against him, needing all of his cock, “as I force you down over your desk. You begin to move your hips back into me, begging to take you faster. Squirming, knowing what is about to come I caress your head.” Her cunt came to life grabbing his cock, squeezing his cock with her pussy, trying to milk him as he continued his own assault and her tight pussy. “Shh, just relax, Firefly. I’m taking you for a ride”

“Fuck me harder, Master” she said as she looked over her shoulder at him. Fiery green eyes full of lust met his. Desire jolted through her body. He looked at the woman he loved and how now in her place a wanton whore. No his sub, his love, his whore. He smiled at what he did, smiled at the fact she was all he wanted. But more than that proud that she was his one.

Her stomach tightened, her pussy spasmed around his cock, as he grunted. He suddenly slammed into her as hard as he could. Bree shrieked, as breath left her body in gasps now. Fuck, yes. He was withdrawing his cock inch by inch only to slam it back into her cunt, again and again. With each action growing stronger and fast than the next.

“You’ve been working too much, we have not spent much time together.” He said as he pulled out of her again. “You need to be fucked.” He muttered breathing heavy.

“Yesss, Master,” she was shaking with excitement.

“HARD,” he accentuated the word with a deep hard thrust.

“Please, Master…” she sobbed, her eyes begging for more.

He pinched her clit while his thumb entered her ass, and his thrusts into her cunt drove Bree over the edge. She was shrieking and squealing in lustful delight, lust had taken hold of her body.

“Cum for me whore.” he whispered roughly as he pounded her for all he was worth.

“Master!” she screamed as she arched her back. His whore’s cunt convulsed around the thick shaft spearing her again and again. She slumped over her desk, dripping in sweat and moaning in waves of pleasure. Her head was spinning until all she could feel was her Master’s cock piercing her steamy dripping wet pussy. Dam she was still cumming, her cunt quivered on his cock, as he flexed his hips, easing himself in and out of her tight warm pussy.

She tried to thank you, but she was past talking. All that came out was a moan. Fuck she was his submissive goddess. Her round hips had just the right heft to fit perfectly in his hands. He slid his hands up her stomach to cup her round perfect breasts. Her breasts were like ripe firm melons in his hands.

“Ohhh…Fuck…Firefly, I am gonna…Uh,” he grunted as he impaled her on his cock.

Bree moaned at the sudden thrust. Her body shuddered in pleasure as her Master shot squirt after squirt of cum deep into her eager cunt. He pinched her clit, causing both of them to jerk as ripples of pleasure rocked their bodies.

Bree’s breathing slowed, as the office came back into focus, her head still drowning in lust. He looked down at her, her skin glistening from the sweat of her lust. Her hair messed up from their lustful journey, god she was so fucking hot.

Pulling her up to standing position, he quickly whirled her around and grabbed hot whore flesh. It took a minute for her to focus on what was happening as he stood there drinking her in with his eyes.

Luscious full lips covered hers in a hot passionate kiss. Her head still spinning as his tongue dove into her eager mouth.

She moaned into his mouth in response. His hand was now pulling her hair back, as her hand roamed up his body to the back of his neck, while another went further south. Her Master had such an amazing cock. She wrapped a hand around it, loving the feeling of it. She then dropped to her knees, ready to worship her Master, the only way she knew how. Looking up at him for approval, she then quickly opened her full lips and took her Master’s cock into her mouth in one eager glide.

“Hmmm, good girl, Firefly.”

He braced himself back against the shelves, his eyes closed. Her hot tongue swirling over the sensitive underside of his cock, while one hand stroked his shaft. She caressed his balls, cupping them in her soft silken hand. She slowly sank his cock deeper and deeper into her mouth.

“Mmmmm,” she hummed sending vibrations of pleasure through his cock as she licked her own juices off it. Passion heated her flush red face and wide eyes that were smiling with pure pleasure as she looked up at him, enjoying what she was doing for her Master. While his happiness matter at this moment it was the thought of being filled again with his cum that egged her on. Her tongue bathed his throbbing cock in steamy heat, as she relaxed her through to take him deeper before she pulled back to breathe.

With a pop, full lips left his cock, her hand still firmly holding the shaft. “Use me as a cum whore Master, fuck me face.”

John balanced himself, then with firm hands he grabbed both sides of her head. His fingers wrapped around golden strands of her hair and he sand his cock into her mouth. Bree groaned in arousal with each thrust of her Master, filling her mouth with his hard flesh. Juices trickled down her chin and fell onto her thighs. One of her hands was still fondling his balls. Her succulent full breast bounced, her Master’s eyes were locked on hers, his hands were tightly holding her head, and with every plunge, she sucked his throbbing hot cock as best she could.

“Oh, fuck. Firefly,” he grunted.

Bree’s eyes lit up, she was a wild whore, licking faster and faster urging her Master on. Warm cream exploded into her mouth as she eagerly sucked and swallowed every hot stream of rope that came from her Master’s cock. Slowing her licks, she used her tongue caressing over his cock through every last twitch.

“Hmm, Master. Thank you'” a whisper as she eased her mouth off his cock and gave him a sexy loving smile.

Bending down John guided her with his hands, turning her to a position that would benefit both of them. She lay there sprawled on the floor, completely lost in her own euphoria, a little small on her face. He stretched out next to her, his eyes surveying all he owned.

She moaned softly as his hands explored his territory, stroking her shoulders, caressing her long sexy neck, hefting her breasts, and slowly tracing his hand down her stomach. His hand finally found the treasure it was looking for as it slipped between her thighs, opening wet juicy lips and drinking in the flushed folds of her hot aroused pussy. His fingers slide along the path of her lips until it found her rosy clit. He pulled back the hood with one finger and gently brushed the exposed tip. She jumped, shuddering wracking her body from head to toe.

A gasp left her mouth as his tongue dove into the hot silky flesh. His tongue stroked over her swollen lips. Delicate little licks and sucks teased her clit. The arousal sent waves down her body. She cupped his head in her hands as her Master’s skilled soft tongue sent waves of heat through her thighs.

“Master, mmmm…” she moaned. The moans we coming in waves now.

He hummed into her slick folds. She tasted tangy and sweet, like the peaches they would go pick in late May. He tongued her juicy cunt harder, exploring the lips of her pussy inside and out. Her body responding heated body thrusts against his mouth with every lick, nuzzle and nibble he made. When his lips finally closed around her sensitive swollen clit and sucked hard, she shrieked, digging her heels into his back.

Bree was lost in the sensations from the attacks of his tongue, her head was spinning. She gasped as her pussy suddenly contracted round something, he was fingering her. Need clutched her body as pleasure from him continued to sharpen until she came in long deep waves of spasms. Her head was fuzzy as her entire body was lost in the afterglow of her Master.

Vaguely she was aware of Master grinning down at her, his face smeared with her sweet juices. She weakly reached out as he came in to kiss her. She could taste her sweet sex on his lips. Her body was so hot, so wet and open, melting from his touch. Warm thickness slid between her ever opening pussy lips. Sweet fuck, he was taking her again.

“Hmm, Master. Deep. Harder. Please…” she was whimpering.

Lifting her hips as best she could, he went deeper. He was no longer her Master he was simply a man claiming what was rightfully his. He growled now making as much noise as she was. His neck was so soft, her luscious breasts rubbed against his chest as he slowly grew faster in speed, impaling her deeper and deeper on his cock. Her pussy was alive with need and excitement, her cries ear-shattering, echoing off the walls of her office. Her pussy latched on to his cock, trying to milk the hard flesh.

“Master,” she whispered in a breathy voice. She was at utter peace.

Minutes passed and she opened her eyes to the feel of something familiar in her pussy. Dazed, she half rolled her head, looking up at Master. His brown-Green eyes were on hers.

“Master” she said almost as if to ask a question.

“Yes, Firefly, it is. I intend for more tonight. After all, we can’t waste my cum, can we?” he said with a grin on his face. “Now get dressed, we have sushi to go pick up and a few things at the store we need before we continue our journey tonight.”

A weak smile was all she could give in response.

At the start of any journey into the BDSM world, all things naughty can be both scary and exciting. The reality of BDSM is a serious lifestyle with the outcome of fun and pleasure for both the Dom and sub being euphoric.

Typically, BDSM relationships are between two people agreeing to a committed relationship. A lot of people depict and view this kind of relationship as alpha controlled, abusive and violent but in reality, it is far from that. More often than not, these couples love each other. It’s a relationship of protection, care, desire to please among other things and many times there’s no sex involved at all in the D/s sessions.

Getting roughed up is not what its all about. Its about release of pressure, tension and stress often followed by ecstasy rupturing.

A few things to be considered before you go running into a sex dungeon:

Know What you Like and Make them Known

You need to be specific. If you like it hard and rough, this could mean one thing to you and something entirely different to a potential partner. Some ass slapping and hair pulling? or rape play and flogging?

Being a submissive is as much a game of the mind as it is physical. Asking permission, being furniture, services like cooking and cleaning, orgasm restriction etc are all popular. Everything in BDSM has to be consensual although a Master/slave dynamic will change to consensual non-consent. Whatever the dynamic thought, your likes and dislikes should be made extremely clear to your Dom.

Be Wise when Choosing a Dom

Many people have wanted to try BDSM since it became more mainstream. There have been stories of both genders picking up at bars and telling complete strangers they were subs and into BDSM when, in fact, they’d never gone down the rabbit hole. Sometimes it turned into a horror story and they got more than bargained for.

Subs release trust, power and control to another person in an extremely intimate way and should make sure it’s only given to the right person.

Respect, Obedience and Please

A Dom has power and control over a sub and this is complete if the Dom is a Master and the sub a Slave. Both subs and slaves should give their Dom full attention and respect. Referring to ‘Sir’, ‘Madame’ or any other agreed upon name is one example and particularly as a slave you obey any and all commands given.

A Dom should not request anything a sub is not already happy to do if it’s been made clear by the sub of his or her limits, ie likes and dislikes. While a Dom should always have his sub’s best interests at heart, remember they’re also there to push the sub’s limits and help them reach their full potential in all areas of the relationship.

A sub’s role is to obey and please the Dom and in return receive pleasure from the Dom.

Power

If the sub doesn’t want to play, there is no game and there’s no Dom without his sub. They both exist for the pleasure of each other. Some subs derive pleasure from the Dom causing embarrassment and/or pain or simply from pleasing their Dom. The Dom gets his pleasure from controlling the sub.

It doesn’t happen with everyone but it is possible to train a sub to be milked of lactate in small amounts. Getting a sub to this point can be a very long process and it will take a long time to know if it’s possible with your own sub. Milking is extremely humiliating and once you get there, training must continue or the ability to be milked with disappear again.

Start Very Slowly

Lactation training should start as a daily process and very slowly. Around the same time each day is preferable. A regular schedule is a must because you’re basically imitating normal breastfeeding.

You should try to make the sub’s nipples sensitive. Not all women have the same nipple sensitivity so try not to make it painful. The should be kept sensitive for most of the day or all day if possible because she needs to be stimulated by the feeling. If it appeals to her to be trained for milking, this is the most important part psychologically. Some things you can do to create psycholocal support for your training regime is to buy a breast feeding bra. These special bras give direct access to her nipples and wearing one will also help her get the right mind set.

You can also order her to take extra care with her nipples by washing more than normal on a regular basis but not to overdo it. This should be a suble trick so she doesn’t forget but shouldn’t be done too much either. Experiment to see what works for both of you.

The Physical Side of Training

The physical training may require some personal experimenting before it’s done right. Both need to dedicate time and effort to get the nipples ready. You’ll need a breastfeeding breast pump that can be placed over the nipples and vacumized. Make it a special time each day by picking a specific hour when the sub is feeling fit and not to tired etc after a full day of other activities.

Have her sit or lay comfortably and place the pumps over the nipples. Experiment with the time, maybe five or ten minutes, depending if they become painful rather than sensitive as a result of the pumps.

Once the nipples are ready, take them between your fingers and pull, twist and squeeze them together in the fashion of milking a cow. This squeezing and pulling should not be painful so use a combination of strength that allows the sub to feel it but not be hurt.

Keep the Actions Going Rhythmically and Slowly

This squeezing and pulling action should be kept up slowly and rhythmically for 5-10 minutes before stopping.

During the first few weeks there certainly won’t be any milk produced. There may be a few drops of blood or white fluid from the lymphatic glands come out. If you’ve been careful, this is just the result of the intense stimulation and nothing to be concerned about.

Body fluids may contain the HIV virus, including the milk but if youare both long time monogamous partners you can dtermine the difference easily between milk and lymphatic fluid by tasting it. The milk will taste slightly sweet.

It’s important to remember, it may take weeks or even months before your sub will be at the point of producing small amounts of milk which is usually only a few drops.

It can be hard to keep up the fund during the long period of time and to maintain training on a positive note she needs to be really into this.

If it starts to irritate, which is more than likely to happen, then training should be stopped as it won’t be working.

Don’t Do This Training After Pregnancy

It’s not a good idea to take advantage of the sub’s feeding abilities after pregnancy. Milk training should not be attempted for the first six months after full termination of the breastfeeding. Even if the sub is not breastfeeding, attempting to milk could interfere heavily with her ability to recuperate naturally and end the lactate production.

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When a Master/Dominant wants to train his submissive he should be clear about two things. That is, first – why he needs to train his slave and second – what is the goal or what is he trying to get out of it.  The answer to the first question may be that his slave is new or it may be she is not responding up to the mark of Master. So there comes the difference in a training programme. A new slave requires training for the very basics. The second question’s answer should not only be limited to the Master only but instead it should be for the benefit of both the partners.

What points to be considered while training a submissive is not a defined set of tasks. What works for one couple may not work out for another couple. It means you should use your mind also and modify them to fit your requirements. By increasing your experience you will grow your own ways, methods and techniques. It is not necessary to involve yourself or your slave to participate in sexual acts or BDSM to teach.

• Experience: The very first thing you should try to know is what’s your slave’s experience in such a relationship. You should also consider your own experience too. The level of experience you both have will help you to know what level of training you need to give to your submissive.
• Clear Expectations: Whether you are going to train a slave or any submissive looking to be trained for the Master. In any case you should be clear about all your expectations especially the basic ones.
• Do not abuse in training: You must remember that your submissive is also a human being. You should not at any time abuse or break her emotionally. You should set your standards and restrict her to them. You should understand that there is difference between saying and doing. There may be situations where your slave admits that she can do the task but cannot do it properly. One cannot become perfect overnight.
• Increase your knowledge: You should also try to increase your awareness of the things about this lifestyle you need to be aware of. Being a submissive they may assume you to know everything about this lifestyle.
• Way of Dressing: You can consider how you want her to present herself in front of you. How she will dress in public places and privately. Will she be using any bondage things like collar, cuffs or not.
• Way of addressing: You can consider the way how your slave will address you. How will it be in public and in private, whether it will be the same or a different way of addressing you.
• Testing: Testing your submissive in between the training programme will help the Dominant to measure the achievements of the desired goal of training. It is not necessary to tell the submissive that she is being tested but yes, of course, you can communicate the result of testing and reward her for good performance.
• Daily Journal: In order to know more about a submissive you can ask her to prepare a daily journal. You can know about her little habits. You can know about her likes and dislikes. Journal also helps submissive to be more mindful towards her feelings and emotions and make her more aware about what impacts they can have on her life.  A journal also helps to learn from mistakes and grow. Written assignments are very effective in knowing and controlling one’s life. In case of an online relationship the Dominant may ask submissive about what she did that day and what did she eat together with other requirements in order to know and manage submissive more effectively. Photos can be provided as a proof.

A submissive’s training should be done keeping in mind that the relationship should work for both and not only the Dominant’s likes and dislikes.  Some people do not agree with this for a slave.  Please comment your thoughts above or start a topic in our Forums.

In the BDSM community, the collar is as important as a wedding ring for a married couple. The type of collar one wears describes the relationship between Dominant and submissive.  A collar shouldn’t be removed without first taking permission from Dom (the dominant partner), even if it is not locked. You can wear a collar at different times depending on the reason it was gifted to you, what it’s made of, and what type of collar you have. Although there are many types of collars but the meaning of a collar and rules related to its usage will be exclusive to your relationship. Let’s take a look at the types of collars and select one or as many as you like for your relationship.

Collar of Protection

A collar of protection is gifted to a submissive who is recovering from a failed or abusive relationship. The collar of protection is known as a symbol of security and it provides the time to heal if required. A collar of protection shows that she is unreachable without the knowledge of the protecting Dominant. Collar of protection is often denoted by the initial of the Dom and a small “P” to highlight the protection.

Collar of Consideration

A collar of consideration is usually the initial step in a new relationship between a Dominant and submissive. The “collar of consideration” is often worn for a certain period of time, and then the couple decides to move on or cut the relationship. A collar of consideration shouldn’t be taken lightly and it must not be given on a casual interest. Both parties need to realize the underlying meaning of this commitment, before giving or accepting the collar of consideration. However, it is not a lifetime commitment and both can’t put any blame on other, if one is willing to leave the relationship at some stage.

Training Collar

A collar of training is actually the second step in relationship, which comes after the collar of consideration. Mostly, there are some conversations about likes and dislikes, discoveries about personalities, and the fact that is there a possibility to extend this relationship. Once the couple decides to move on, Dom offers this collar to the submissive.

Formal Collar or Slave Collar

Formal collar is mostly known as the slave collar and it is ultimately the final step in a Dominant/submissive relationship. A formal collar is a symbol of attachment between the Dominant and submissive. It bears the equal level of commitment and bond as a wedding ring. In offering formal collar, the Dominant shows respect, trust, commitment and other elements which are necessary for a D/s relationship.

At the end, no matter what type of collar you wear, just remember what it represents and value it with respect.

If you’d like to add any other collars, please make a comment using the link at the beginning of this article or start a topic in our Forums.

You may have some worst thinking about this type of relationship but you can’t even imagine how attractive the relationship is for some specific types of people. Life is really complex. In which way should I earn, how long will my family support me, which course should I choose to study, what food I should prepare in the morning, what I should eat in the night etc. makes us confused when we are the owner of our own. Internal enslavement cancels all these confusions of life. So just reducing her life into normal slavery form, she is fed and the complexity of human life is reduced to her.

In this type of relationship some basic principles should be maintained. Some basic principles are:

• First of all, know your slave. A Master must need some information about his developing slave to manage her even in some complex condition. In certain situations which behavior she normally shows is very important for a Master to know.
• Though your slave is internally enslaved you should not do any harm to her. If you get a great mistake and want to punish her then you should be careful enough about the punishment limit. Because it may cause a great damage physically, mentally or emotionally.
• Learn enough about this relationship before being a Master. Without any knowledge you can’t teach and lead another.

There are so many people who think the slavery as “role play”. They don’t want to believe and argue on the topic that, it can’t be real slavery, though there were so many examples of real slavery in the past. By the history there were so many real slaves who entered into this relationship voluntarily. Sometimes those people, who don’t want to believe, show some unique logic also. They ask wisely how it can be real as this is illegal and as no law exists in the world by which a slave can be bound to her Master. Technically she can even leave her Master anytime.

Their logic is really awesome. But they should know that there are so many things that are not sanctioned and maintained by law. Actually, if anybody is internally enslaved, he/she can’t leave because, probably these bonds are even stronger than an iron chain. One could be enslaved forcibly and even put in chains, but this slavery would just be artificial or superficial. For this relationship you need to feel the enslavement by your heart and your soul.

Please comment your views above or start a topic in our Forums.

With the passage of time, you get familiar with new ways of getting pleasure out of life. During the community events, you meet with experienced fellows and learn new things about BDSM lifestyle. Now, you might want to apply some of them in your relationship, but you are confused regarding how to convince your partner.

Well, your problem will be solved once you finish reading this article. This article is all about how to present your new kind desires in front of your partner. Let’s begin from the start:

Few Things to Consider Before Talking to Your Partner

First of all, you need to reconsider your desires and ensure that you really want it. Sometimes, you start loving an idea when you hear it from someone else, but then you realize that it is not for you. Recall your decided limits and think whether you are asking something within the limits or not.

Sometimes, you come up with a whole new idea and think that you should try it, but you have no idea how things go once you start the play. In that situation, you need to ensure that your idea is safe and there is no chance of physical or mental abuse. Also, it is better to talk to an experienced person before trying a new thing.

Once you are satisfied with these things, now you are ready to talk to your partner.

Plan an Erotic Meeting & Talk

No matter if you are living together or separately, you need to arrange an erotic date, which starts with the dinner and then things goes on. During the dinner, don’t look like a nervous person who is worried for something. Remember that both of you are partners to each other and it’s okay to desire something new from your partner.

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Later, when both of you had a happy time with each other, it is the time to talk! Now, your partner is in relax and comfortable mood, he or she will listen to you in a better manner. Speak about your desires and ask him to think about it, that’s all. Don’t try to enforce or argue if they refuse your ideas. There is a lot of time in future when you can talk again, and they might not refuse at that time.

How to Talk? Keep it Simple

Now, you have learned the plan, but how to initiate the actual topic? Well, you better start the chat on a lighter note like talk about your latest trip to the community. Once you have got the attention, you can tell them how many people told you that they have tried new things. Try to give a couple of examples as well.

Read More: What is Sub Training

Now, you can begin with a question like ‘why don’t we start something new? I have a very powerful desire, but I think you won’t be convinced’, etc. Now, they should ask what the desire is, and then you explain your things. Keep it simple; don’t try to present your desires in a dangerous manner. Also, try to add something of their interest to convince them easily.

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However, many people misunderstand love in the lifestyle due to their cultural background. Some believe that love is all about ownership and possession while other thinks that love has no place in a hierarchical relationship. These opinions are biased and both represent extremes. They don’t tell the true story about love and how it bonds different people together.

To understand how love, relationships, and lifestyle are connected and how they influence each other, you need to start from the very beginning. Let’s take a look at the basic explanation of the word ‘love’ in Greek. There are four different explanations for the world ‘love’ – each of them explains meaning of this word in different contexts.

1. Philia: A form of love or fondness among friends.
2. Agape: absolute love, a form of love that can’t be lost or earned.
3. Storge: Familial love, love between family members.
4. Eros: intimate love, sexual passion.

Despite the fact that the Greek language has gone to limits to explain the word ‘love’, English language has failed to give us a comprehensive explanation of the word. Due to this problem, most of us don’t consider the meaning but only the feeling that’s attached with love. This feeling of love is directly taught through movies, television, and stories that we learned in our childhood. It ends up being a confused and a vague idea that people fail to understand and therefore they never realize its importance in their life and their relationships.

When you start participating in the community consistently, you start making new connections. Through those links, you begin to form familial bonds and new friends. These friendships are priceless and a perfect investment for long time. They are the people we meet regularly, have dinners together, and support each other during the hard time. These kinds of relationships come under the Philia. From this stage, rest of our lifestyle relationships are developed.

Sometimes you do have a relation within the family and this is known as a familial tie or Storge. With the time, you have heard more stories about loveless family experiences and childhoods as compare to jolly childhood experiences. This is the stage where we need to work and improve our lifestyles.

The love and devotion of storge and philia is quite easily accepted by the community without any commotion. But when it comes to hierarchical relationships, people are confused and they don’t accept existence of love easily. They believe that they need to have a separate relationship so that they can manifest love through it. They deny existence of love in hierarchical relationships. They have to develop other relationships to find love through sexual and romantic connection.

When it comes to eros, people are as confused as they are in the case of love in hierarchical relationships. They think that since they can’t control the act of ‘falling in love’, they can’t possibly control a situation. As a result, people started believing that Eros makes them weaker. This unbridled and tumultuous passion can actually reduce ability to make sane and wise decisions, especially when it is truly romantic love.

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Unfortunately, people take this phrase “training a submissive” in a negative manner. This ‘training’ is more likely the preparation of a particular job. It is very similar to the training you receive in your office to work in a better manner.

The purpose of training is to ensure that you and the company are on the same page. The training ensures that you learn the right way to do your job. Also, it provides you an idea that what is expected from you during the job. Well, now you might have a better idea what training actually means in BDSM.

In BDSM world, some of the people also use the phrase “breaking a submissive or slave” for training. Women are quite similar to horses as they are beautiful, fierce and wild when unbroken. Similar to horses, you need to train your submissive to perform as per your demands.

In a simple sense, training is a type of education or learning. When your Dom tells you to ensure that you bring a coffee to his bed every morning, it is also training. He might ask you to soap him down each night before getting to bed and you need to practice it. When training goes a little further, he can ask you to bend over for the anal sex (for submissives who doesn’t feel interested in anal). Similarly, there can be any other thing that you might consider as a limit, but your Dom or owner wants you to do it.

Here is a good example of training:

Let’s suppose that you Dom want a complete silence while having the anal sex, but you just can’t keep your voice low. Similarly, he might want you to take punishments without speaking, moving, or crying, but it is your natural behavior to start crying or arguing before taking any punishment. Now, he has to train you and make you behave like he prefers.

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If the Dom has a liking on how to cook, how to dress, how to sit, or other things, that is training as well. Training is basically adapting in a new environment as per the demands of your Master.

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For Dominants and Masters, it’s vital to remember that you are not creating a new human being. You shouldn’t try to wipe out the actual personality of your slave or submissive. Your ultimate goal should be improving your slave’s personality through promoting positive behaviors while eliminating the negative ones.

For example, if your submissive is more of a talky person, you shouldn’t make her keep the mouth shut all the time like a mindless person. Instead, you should teach her when to speak freely and when to watch out before speaking anything. In this way, both of you can enjoy your time with each other.

Learn more: The basics of flogging: How to flog someone?

At the end, there are thousands of Sub-training programs available on the internet. You can use one of them if you are not able to make your own training program. Before applying any training program, you should make few amendments as per your desires and requirements. Why make changes? Because there is absolutely no point in learning things that you don’t care about.

It is very important to note that both of you needs to show interest in training. While deciding a training program, it is better to decide a time limit for each goal. There can be rewards or punishments for a successful training or failure.

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In the start, I didn’t like spanking at all; I had more interest in biting and pinching. Now, when I met to a trustworthy Dom, I experimented on different areas of BDSM and I loved the most of it except few things.

If you are someone who is curious to know what are the best parts to bite, spank and hit during a play, then you can have come to the very right place. In this article, you will get tips from an experienced submissive who know exactly how it feels.

Spanking

Mostly, spanking is done on the upper thighs and buttocks. Since these are meatier parts of the body, you can hit really hard with a flat palm, gloves, or with any object. Try gloves made with different type of stuff and make different touches like a pinch, rubbing your nails, ass grab, and whatever feels right to you.

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Some of the people just need the periodic spanking to feel the enjoyment while some want to get spanked very seriously; they want to get the feeling of humiliation. For that, you might need to pull their ass on your lap and spank until it gets red. If the sub is a woman, bending her over your knee and spanking seriously can trigger the tightening in her clit, which is an awesome feeling. Spanking offers a wonderful sexual pleasure, do it often and enjoy!

Hitting

I wasn’t open for hitting in the very start because it felt like a very serious physical abuse to me. Later, I learned that hitting can add a lot of enjoyment to your life and it feels great to me. When I become comfortable with this, I crave for getting slapped as my Dom gets back to home.

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I recommend an open palm hitting as compared to a closed fist until both the partner get comfortable with it. A closed fist can cause serious damage if you are new to hitting.

In the start, I like light slapping across my face and then hard slapping when we get wild and I am fully turned on. My Dom told me once that he loves the look of complete shock when I get slapped.

Slapping is really enjoyable, but it should be avoided if the mouth of the next person is open as it can damage the jaw. Slap on both cheeks to make them look even.

Biting

Biting is one of my most preferred activity! For me, nothing is sexier than being nibbled or bitten by your partner. Nipples are the most favorite part of the mind where I want to feel the teeth of my Dom. Nibbling feels great on most of the parts like nipples, chest, arms, thighs, ears, etc.

When you have a desire of hard biting, you need to look for a meatier part of the body. If you bite hard on a bony area, it will cause serious pain, which doesn’t turn into pleasure.

Read More: What are the Hard Limits? 

Since my thighs and genitals are very sensitive, so a big NO for thighs and sexual parts.

To make it even sexier, you can make your partner lay on their chest and bite on the back of their neck like most of the mammals do while having sex. The purpose of their biting is to keep their mate still and show their power to them. This idea delights me and I love it whenever my partner does this to me.

At the end, it is very important to have proper communication between you and your partner before you practice any of the above. Communicate, spank the ass, bite the nipples, hit the face, and have a great time!

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