There are many false impressions about the BDSM and sensual domination. One of the main concerns of vanilla people regarding Domination is that it is all about degrading and abusing the women, which is not true. When you look at D/s relationship from the outside, you might take it as an abusive and disgusting relationship unless you understand the nature of this relation. Women become more confident and desired than ever while having a D/s relationship. Let’s come to the point and see what you can do for your sub to build her confidence.

Confidence is the key to a successful relationship either it is a kinky relationship or vanilla. Regardless of your sub’s sex desires, you must build her self-confidence before going any further. Here are some easy and simple tips through you can make your sub feel self-confident and desired.

Scars from your Past

Some of the times, our family members, friends, and ex partners scar us from their words. These words keep damaging your self-thoughts, your sex appeal, your weight, your body, your sexual ability and your look. In the result, you keep losing your confidence with the passage of time.

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Whereas, having a good sensual Dom allows you to eliminate the psychological barriers and become a woman who is highly confident, highly desired and highly sexual.

Let your sub watch her beauty with your eyes

A beautiful way of changing the self-perception of a sub is through taking her on the shopping for special outfits to dress up for you including hot lingerie, CFM heels, make up, stockings, jewelry and others. The time you spend together for the shopping will arouse her for many days.

It is a common phenomenon that women always feel very confident, desired, beautiful, and aroused while dressing up. Once she dressed up in lingerie, grab a camera and take erotic photos so she can see herself through your eyes. This is a perfect way to make her self-confident and improve her sexual energy.

In the last, you can play a sexy game with your partner by asking her to make highly sensual poses. These poses will make you horny and then you can put down the camera to grab her.

Outcomes of this beautiful role-play

• As you captured your sub in exotic photos, she will feel more beautiful and sexy than ever.
• She finds an escape from the mental restraints of her previous life to become a confident and expressive woman.
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• She remains mentally aroused for many days because of the whole process; it will make her experience the powerful orgasms.
• Now, both of you have extremely wild and erotic photos as memories, which makes both of you happy to do this again.

Long term commitment

There is no magical trick through you can fix up a person’s self-confidence in a quick time. It takes a consistent attention, care, love, encouragement and support to build their confidence. It won’t cost you a penny to give attention to your submissive, but it is priceless for them. Remember, it is a long term commitment and your need to show your positive attitude to let them recover quickly.

With improved sexual confidence, she will find it easy to express her sexual desires. Now, you should understand that Domination is not an act of abuse or degradation. It is actually an act of great caring and showing love to a woman.