Most of the times, turning yourself on is very mental. Things going on in your mind are as significant as what’s happening with your body. This is the reason why dirty talk and verbal communication is very important!

For me, there is nothing better than dirty talk to get myself turned on and have an explosive orgasm. Before starting the fun, I always prefer to have a long sexy talk with my partner for a couple of hours and that’s very enjoyable for me.

Do you have any interest in verbal humiliation? Are you and your partner try sexy talk before a session or play? Do you like to make your submissive or Dom squirm in anticipation a long before you went to bed?

Do you find it hard to use dirty words with your partner? Here are some basics for the beginners.

1. For those who feel really nervous while talk dirty, you should start small and keep trying. There is no hurry that you have to go become an expert in only one night; you can take a month or two to get completely comfortable. For the start, you can say “you are so dirty” to get the feeling of it. When both of you get used to such language, you can move to the next step.
   

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2. While talking to you partner, you will notice that your partner respond perfectly to some particular words. Get few words that compliment and insult your partner and make use of them at different times.
3. Tone of the words plays an important role in describing your intentions. Try out different tones like act angry, whisper, growl, sound disgusted and sometimes natural as well.
4. Be confident! Remember one thing that lack of confidence won’t turn you on; instead, it will kill the mood.
5. While talking dirty with your partner, a sudden slap would be awesome.
6. If you can’t say the word “penis or pussy” in a loud voice, then you should keep practicing it alone until you can say it. Say it loud enough and try to sound natural. When you get comfortable, you can share it with your partner.
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8. Another good option is that set a code word for your submissive so you can say it in public like “MYP for My Hot Pussy.” Now, you can turn your submissive with this word in her ears, which will make her to get back to the bed early.
9. Don’t stick on to a single word or two all the time. Keep researching and find more words for your partner.
10. Be willing to try new words and take risks. Don’t worry if you make mistakes as it is completely natural. If your partner laughs at your words sometimes, don’t take it seriously.
11. If you find yourself stuck at something, don’t hesitate to take help from others. When you go to the community events, you can ask the experienced people to help you in a matter you can’t help yourself.

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